I am 15, like my friend's brother, who is 19, how do I behave around him, we text each other?

A female age 30-35, *stx writes:

Hey. Basically I'm 15 years old and have known my (female) best friend since the start of this school year, so we're quite close. Over the past few months I've been going round to her house more and more, and started noticing her older brother more and more. To start with he was just a laugh, he'd come into the room while we were watching a film and make jokes and laugh with us, but recently I've wanted to spend more time with him every time I go round. I went back to my friend's house yesterday after school and we ended up in her brother's room with him listening to music, he asked for my phone number and also gave me his. Since last night we've been texting eachother constantly about what we're up to and stuff, he's being really nice and I think i really like him. My friend has been saying for ages that she thinks we'll end up together, and now I think I want to. The only problem is I'm 15 and he's 19, before anyone jumps to conclusions he's not the type of guy to take advantage, he's really nice and genuine, and I've known him long enough to know he wouldn't pressure me into anything. But I just don't know how to act around an older guy, I'm quite shy and he knows that, but I want to know how to act to try and encourage him to like me, I'm already very mature for my age, most people assume I'm about 17/18, but I think I really like this guy so can I have some help please, thanks.

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