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*ickybenz
writes:I messed up with my fiance so bad ..She said she has been Unhappy For months since a lil after the baby was born ..that she doesn't love me like she used to .. I work 6days a week 10hrs a day and we recently moved a hour away from work for both of us .. Which seemed to make it worse Since then we have argued a lot and didn't show eachother much affection mostly cuz we didn't have much time for eachother ..and I kno I didn't help as much with the baby as I should have she went bak to work full time and had to take the baby to daycare everyday and she had no time for her and I also have a anxiety disorder which consumed a lot of my time and made me very moody n depressed on n off the past 5 yrs n I kno its no excuse ..n the past month told me she needs her space and I should go stay with my mom ..come to find outthis sunday she has a friend from work whis still jus a friend and makes her happy and niw she has totally changed even her friends n family can't understand it ..no one gets y she jus doesn't care about me anymore ..she said she is so sorry this has happened n she never meant to hurt me and wishes things were diff n she wishes we didn't grow so far apart ...so I messed ut up more textig her constantly telling her I deserve more then this after 3yrs n deserve a chance to prove it to her I love her n wanna be better for her n our family ..and she just don't seem to care i don't get it ...so I'm asking u is it really jus she changed? Or is she hurt from me not doin as much? Or is she acting out and not caring about all we had cuz she happy?..abd now I feel this new guy is gonna make her happy n ill never have my chance to show her I care n we can work things out and its all I think about it hurts so bad and now I'm making my son suffer cuz I can't bare to see her ..was she just overwhelmed and mad to the point her feelings vanished ? Or is it hate? I do love her n feel she is jus confused n overwhelmed n hurt over everything and I know she is too I did really mess up a lot n so did she ..seems she is rebeling against me I don't kno what to do anymore. She said shw don't want to try now and don't kno what the future holds for us but right now she is ok. N some days she jus says she don't want to n don't kno if she ever will ..my son is 10m old n I feel like she is really jus rebeling because she was doin it all n jus don't kno if I'm worth it anymore? I don't kno I was lookin for some advice from a woman point of view but anything will helpI swore to her I can make her happy again it will jus take some time to prove to her I can change and she jus don't care what I say I'm staying with my mom now and can't even do more to show her ugh I kno. N feel so bad I let it get to this to realize what I had now feel like its gone forever
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