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writes: Heya guyss,I have this really big problem in falling for "bad boys" the more bad the better! My last boyfriend managed to get me into a jail cell when he beat up a chav and i was caught at the scene. I can't help falling for all these guys. How can i moove on to more "good boys"? Reply to this Question
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (31 July 2006):
 i used to have a thing for bad boys myself i think the whole attraction is that you think you can be the one to change and tame them into a good guy but 9 times out of 10 you cant and you'll only get hurt. you'l never find a serious relationship with a bad boy and be able to trust em.
there are plenty of lads that look bad and hard and they'd protect you if you needed em to but there pretty soft once you get to know and they turn out to not be bad at all. only thing is there hard to find. keep looking your just attracted to the image they have coz obviously no one's attracted to the fact you get to spend a few nights in jail.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2006): I have the same problem. I have been to counseling, which has helped a lot, and what I recommend for you. In counseling they ask what I consider a bad boy is, why I am attracted to their characteristics, and then what I really want. What I really want and what will make me happy in the long run comes nowhere near a bad boy. I'm actually getting better at weeding out the bad boys sooner, but it's hard. Half of the time they are doing me a favor by breaking up with me saying I'm a "good girl." If they can see the problem, then there is a real problem, and I need to realize that I (and you) deserve better.
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