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writes: I am 40 years old, married with 2 adult (21 and 17) children. My husband and I have a great sex life...we have sex at least once a day...I have found myself enjoying it more as I get older. I have had the same pre-sex routine for the last 20 years though. I always bathe or shower before...which is fine, but it takes the element of surprise away...I have always wanted to have spontaneous sex...but I can't do it without a fresh washing. I am too paranoid. I am afraid of not being clean...i am the only one who feels that way?? Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Use baby wipes. Have them beside your bed. You can give yourself a quick wipe down there so that you feel fresh and clean.
You could also be a little bit of an obsessive compulsive. Are you constantly cleaning your house? But I really don't know a lot about that... It just sounds similar to what a friend of mine used to do. He was quite extreme though.
Good Luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Well.. Lets see... Some people just like haven clean sex.. In your case.. You want to be clean.. Maybe so you dont smell weird.. Im sure you dont.. but you may think tt you might.. i dont know... Alot of people are that way....
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