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writes:I met up with an old boyfriend recently. He's single and a real rock and roller. He is highly sexed and its as if that's all he thinks about.We have great chemistry. He has admitted about all the girls he has slept with while on tour etc. That's one of the reasons he is now my ex. However I do still find him sexy and attractive and would consider getting back with him if he was ready and if the time was right.He admitted that he has had threesomes. To his shock I admitted that I would consider a threesome. He asked me twice if I would be OK with it. To be honest I have done it in the past and did not really enjoy it but for some reason (I did not tell him about this) I feel as if I want to be part of his exciting sex life. Even if it was just the once.We are just friends at the moment and I am not doing any chasing. I know he as a lot of respect for me and we first started dating over 30 yrs ago and for us to still want to tear each others clothes of in our 50's is quite something. Neither of us look our age and we are both quite fit and attractive. Do you think its an age thing why I am feeling like this. I am seeing someone but the sex is a little boring. I'm not married.Any advice welcome.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2016):
 As long as you are safe well then you are old enough to make up your mind about this. However you are seeing someone so this technically would still be cheating therefore I would suggest you tell him if you plan to do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2016): Who does this guy think he is? Mick Jagger?Once a player. Always a player. Even if he is old now.But by your age you should know what you're doing and what the score is.Just know it's all fun and games. Like it always was. Like it always will be.You're just another knotch in his crowded belt. Just another woman building up his ego.If you want to rekindle a relationship or have feelings for him beyond the sexual variety, then just go in with eyes wide open. And realize opening that door again could make you more attached. And realize how painful that would be for you when you put yourself in this position knowing full well he will use you, cheat on you and never commit to you.Also please be kind to the person you are with now. If you plan to play in another play ground, then let him go first. Cheating on him to satisfy your carnal urges would be absolutely cruel. Clearly you don't care much for him anyway since you are on a public forum asking strangers if you should have a threesome with an aging play boy.Personally, I think there is nothing more degrading than a threesome. A woman is saying she is not worthy enough to have her man all to herself. And obviously she would never be able to satisfy a man like this. You must wonder where would it go from there? What new experience would he ALWAYS be seeking to top the last one?You know him. You left him because of his player ways. Why open a door which has been closed for so long? Time to seal it shut. Try to spice up your sex life with your current partner. Yes it can be done. Instead of putting your effort into this old, new man, focus on putting your effort into your partner! People are not candies in a candy shop. You can't sample all the others while hanging onto your favourite. Wanna sample? Let your bf go and do whatever makes you happy.We all have lulls and boring spells in our sex lives with a committed partner. This too shall pass.Get this guy out of your mind. He's not worth it. Certainly he has a lot of issues to still be acting like a teenager all these years later. That is just pathetic. And he is just a pig.Think about the man you are throwing away so that you can lower yourself to become yet another groupie to your ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2016): I think you guys are both into adventures. Being single at the age you are at tells me something . Usually people when getting older, want to be with someone permannently and not looking for extreme excitement as it was in 20s-30s. Other things become valuable like companionship, mutual interests, caring for each other.
sex is very important of course. But for me would be equally important how a person feels about meemotionally and how i can rely on this person.
Your friend seem to be a player, who had tons of women, and there is no stopping to him. Be careful of STDs.
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