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writes: Hi i have a really difficult problem. I met this guy over the internet the other day and he asked to see a picture of me.. well I accidentally sent him one of someone else. So he asked to meet up somewhere but I tried explaining to him that the pic wasnt me. Now he's all pissed off because he thinks I lied to him about who I am but I didnt. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2005): he maybe a pervert.
he maybe a female.
Do you trust him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2005): just send him a real photo of you, apologise for the mistake, and if he still wants to see you then meet up!
If he doesnt wnt to, then it wasnt meant to be!
Go find yourself another guy- preferably not through the internet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2005): Sorry, but I can't believe that you could "accidentally" send him someone else's picture. Are you trying to get us to believe that you had a file on your computer called something like "my pic" and it was of someone who was - coincidentally! - much better looking than you? (I'm guessing it wasn't a photo of an elephant's rump that you sent him, right?)And how would you know that you sent him someone else's photo, unless you saw the photo before you sent it? And then again, if you knew you'd done that, why didn't you just send him an apology and send him the right one straightaway?Probably best to quit fibbing... To me, to him, to yourself, too. It's getting to be a problem, don't you think? You sent him someone else's photo because you didn't think you looked good enough. Now that he wants to meet, you realise things are out of hand.Well, that's fine, and it happens to a lot of people. It's time to come clean and admit your mistake to him. Ask him to accept your apology because you were nervous and insecure. Assure him that you won't lie again about anything to him. Then send him your real picture and ask if he'd like to meet the "real you".If he will, great! You've got a good one. Treat him well, and do your utmost to stay honest with him. But if he isn't interested in meeting you, now that you've been honest, then you know he was only interested in someone superficially attractive, not the real person that you are. Furthermore, if he won't accept your sincere apology when you explain the circumstances, he's a small-minded bastard, and you're better off without him.Bestanon
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