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I love him, but he left me when I needed him the most..how do I know he won't do it again?

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Question - (4 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Just over a year ago my husband left me, not because he cheated on me but beacuse he felt that he wasn't good enough for me. He said that he felt i deserved somebody better. Most of this started after he found out that his father cheated on his mother, and had a child with another woman.

A couple of weeks after he left I found out that I was pregnant with his child. I tried to contact him, but he changed his number and no-one knew where he had gone.

I had a beautiful baby boy, a couple of months later. Recently, my husband has come back into my life and found out about our baby. I still love him but how do I know he's not going to leave me again. It broke my heart the first time. He also left when I needed him the most. Should I trust him again?

Thanks for your help. Sorry its long.

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A female reader, glam231 United States +, writes (4 March 2009):

glam231 agony aunthe was properly going though a tough time in life you should be happy he is back in your life FORGIVE AND FORGET

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009):

I would be very cautious at first. Protect yourself and now your son from going through that loss again. Maybe you two should try some counciling to help you through this rough patch. And I would suggest making sure that there is plenty of communication between the two of you. It is likely that whatever was going on with him when he left is out of his system now but you have to worry about your heart first. Good Luck.

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