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*orried08
writes:I've been seeing a guy for 4 months. We both have gone through terrible relationships and we have so many things in common. He's an awesome guy and there's no doubt about that. We've been having sex, however, he uses the withdrawal method but it failed. I'm pregnant. I do not know how to tell him. Please, can anybody help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Thoughts are with you, some tough choices ahead. Hug.
please lets us know what happens.
Star.x.
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reader, worried08 +, writes (4 March 2009):
worried08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly told him that I've only been in 2 relationships (I'm 34 years old). He told me he had only been in 4 relationships, however, before we decided to be intimate. I did suggest to him to get tested just in case and of course I did too. Thank you very much for your answers, I really appreciate it. I will go ahead and let him know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): well you have a few months to tell him or he is going to know...
i think you just say look i know we haven't been together long, but the withdrawal method didn't work....then tell him how you feel about the baby and keeping\terminating it.
Big hugs, Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): You are going to just have to come out and tell him. It's as much his fault as it is yours! It will be better after he knows because the two of you can decide together how to handle this. And I have to agree with ArmyMedic, there is no excuse for not using birth control!!!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 If you don't use condoms there is a highly likely chance you will fall pregnant, any bloke who doesn't use PROPER protection should know he risks getting his partner pregnant!
So just go a head and tell him, it was going to happen anyway.
Also best have a STI screen, if you haven't used condoms in this relationship chances are you both haven't used them in the past too!
In this day and age there is no excuse for using such old fashioned contraception.
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