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writes:Sorry 4 bad grammor and spelling I'm not well educated. Sorry long story. Welli had a fight with hb of 3yr over my boobs he wanted to see them I said no they are to small if he would let me get enlagmet to size d he could see them all the time he said no I wouldn't look right I'm 34b 5ft 8in 107lbs so I got mad and left went to male frinds house when I went home 4or5 hours hb said sorry to do whatever would make me happy I was the cake and my boos was the icing he don't care what icing looks like. We always tell eachother everything I told him I almost cheated I went to mf house talked about our fight mf said he wanted to see if hb was right so I let him see my boobs he said he needed to all of me to know so I took my bottems off he said I would look real good with d's and kissed my boob and hug me asked if we could have sex since I was mad at hb isaid ok I took his pant off as he played with me oop's I started my p I said no sex it would make a mess so I played with him that's all. Hb that I cheated on so meny leavls 1) when I talked to mf about my body 2) when I let him see me nude 3) when I said ok to sex and let him play with me 4) when I played with him. I said I didn't cheat.he said becouse of that statment he would never trust me and he could not live with somone he could not trust and leaft how can I get him to see almost is not the same as cheating. Thanks to all
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): It looks very funny to me, you want to show your boobs to your friend but not to your husband, how come? it shows clearly you want your husband only for name sake but not for love and sex, and you like your friend to have sex with you and that is not a problem to you, how can a husband tolerate this? If you want your husband, right away you need beg for sorry and reconcile with him otherwise you will loose your husband and cut this friend immediately from your life otherwise he will going to ruin your married life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Yes, it is cheating.
Why do people cheat, lots of reasons.
If I understand the circumstances correctly:
You cheated because of your self esteem being diminished because of your view of your own body, and another man tells you that it is "just fine" and he'd more than like to do you.
Yet, I don't get the picture that your husband is abusive, from what you say, what I read is that he likes your body, and wants to see more of it. That is no excuse for cheating, sounds like he likes your breasts as they are and you just want them enlarged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): I agree, yes that is cheating! If my man asked another woman to get naked so he could see her boobs....then kissed them and fooled around, he would be kicked to the curb in a second! At this point, YOU were in the wrong, i know you were fighting to begin with, but trust me that doesnt give you the right!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Sorry OP, even as your post is hard to read..you let a friend of yours see your breasts, touch and kiss them, then asks you to strip nude, then you guys couldn't have sex because you were on your period(but the shocking part is would you have if you weren't on your period?) and you guys messed around. Yes, that is cheating. Doing sexual acts with a guy who is not your husband is cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): You did cheat. Just because you didn't actually have sex it doesn't mean you didn't cheat on your husband. You allowed another guy to see and touch what should be for your husband's eyes and hands only. And you touched him in a sexual way. Sexual acts leading up to sex count as cheating even if you didn't actually have intercourse. You said yourself the only reason you didn't have sex with this guy is because you got your period so why exactly should your husband trust you? If you hadn't got your period it sounds like you would have had no hesitation sleeping with a guy who wasn't your husband. I think you are going to have a lot of work to do before your husband starts to trust you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): Looks like you did cheat to me. You went to a male friends house and did sexual acts but not sexual intercourse.
Sorry but that is cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): sorry but i see that as cheating. definately,
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