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writes:My husband and I had a huge disagreement over a chat I was having with a friend of the oppistie sex and he wanted a divorce. He joined an online dating site and even tried to meet girls from personal adds. After long talks we decided to work it out. He told me he got rid of the dating site but I found out he still had it. It is not longer working but I found out that he has started waking up in the middle of the night watching porn and searching personal adds again. We have a great sexy life and are getting ready to go on vacation together but when I found out about the personal sites and the porn it really hurt. We have recently had a discusion about porn and how I feel it is wrong if he does it by himself but is ok if we do it together. He tells me I am the only woman he wants to be with, if that is so the why does he still look at the personal adds?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): Well my husband and I just took a long romantic vacation and I did everything I could to make him feel special. I have already stopped chatting with other males and even cancled my facebook account. As for the conversation with the other man we were joking about him being a boyscout and I was joking on him about the uniform and how i would like to see him in it then I even said how I was just joking and how unsexy that would be. The problem was when my husband asked me about it I lied to him and said I was not chatting with the other guy.
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reader, LarryGalapagos +, writes (18 April 2010):
Very simply, your husband does not feel special right now.
If you care about your marriage, you need to stop talking to other males immediately.
You need to make your husband feel amazingly special. There are endless ways to do this, and I would get started right away.
This response seems to be the only one coming from a guy (so far). I hope you guys can work it out. Good luck.
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (14 April 2010):
Who knows why he still looks atbthe personal ads? Immaturity? Unable to be faithful? Perhaps after a taste of single life he realised he preffered it? Bit what ever the outcome you deserve to be treated better!
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