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writes: i'm 25,i haven't been in relationship yet, i'm good looking and i have a job and freinds,the problem is that if i liked a guy i get scared and i blocked him as if i'm guilty or feel ashamed that i liked him,i avoid eye contact or smiling even because i feel that i'm sending signal and it's cheap..
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reader, LordofDarknessandLight +, writes (14 April 2010):
Confidence is a problem many people suffer from. You just have to have more faith in yourself. Provided he is a nice guy and you like him, there is nothing wrong with letting him know it. Sending signals and flirting is perfectly natural. Everyone does it. If you are afraid of how people will judge you, just ignore them. Who cares what other people think.If you see a guy you like, maybe try asking him out for a coffee. Its just 2 people going for a drink, perfectly harmless. Just think that you're going for a drink with a friend. Talk for a bit, get to know him a little better. Quite often shyness is an attractive quality and if he is a nice guy he'll probably try to compensate for that.Maybe you can ask friends for some other advice, or possibly even be around for when you need that extra boost of confidence. I have no doubt if you ask someone close to you for help, you'll get it.In the end though, just be yourself. That is all anyone can ask of you.
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reader, Madeyoye +, writes (14 April 2010):
You are a Lady and you need to Understand More about relationship,i will not advice you to give rooms to all guys that comes your way but give One a chance you don't have to be scared give someone you knw is capable to take good care of you nd Love you...
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