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writes: My problem is that my husband of 2 years has been spending all of his time with his friend. I go to school 4 nights a week, so we really only get to spend time together on the weekends. So when I am at school, he is with his guy friend and when I get home, like most wives I want to spend time with him. It's not like I have a problem with them hanging out, its just that they are together all the time. I have left him once because of the problems we had, and during the time we were separated things got better, but when I moved back in, it got much worse. What can/should I do? I love my husband to death and I really do want to be with him. I'm just at a loss for words and I don't know what else to do. Please help. Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, nina, writes (6 February 2005): i know it seems as though he is not paying much attention to the relationship, but men are not like us women they need their time. your husband sounds like my ex, the key to it is to talk to him, if that does not work then you go out and have fun! you have friends too, you have a life too and if he wants to be with 'the lads' then let him. absence makes the heart grow fonder, he'll come back saying that your out too much and that he misses you. dress sexy, stylish, just as you would of when you were single, it will catch his attention and make him remember how fantastic you are and why he married you. if that does not work offer to go out with him and the lads one day and see how that goes, then even if you are totally irritated by the way they are, pretend you are having the time of your life. he is a man who is married, its like selling their freedom to them. his friends are his sanctuary that is why he is always with them. to prove to them that he is still the same man regardless of being married.
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