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writes:Married for 11 yrs, been in love with another man for 29yrs, he lives 1,800 miles away. Went to see him after 10yrs of not seeing each other and he tells me that he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He's everything I ever wanted in a man and I wish I didn't know that he loved me. I'm 47 yrs. he's 49, I have 2 sons both are married and 1 has a family. My husband is a good man, but due to an accident we can't be like all other couples can. I'm lost, can't sleep, daydream all the time about him.What does one do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I hope you never have an accident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): So you decided to go "see" this other man while being married? And now declare he is everything you wanted? Something here doesn't jive.
However, since you have already made a decision...what really is the problem is committing to the decision.
It would be scary to leave all that you have known and venture into the unknown.
If you love a man and want to be with him...then do it.
Just do it the right way next time.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): So you decided to go "see" this other man while being married? And now declare he is everything you wanted? Something here doesn't jive.
However, since you have already made a decision...what really is the problem is committing to the decision.
It would be scary to leave all that you have known and venture into the unknown.
If you love a man and want to be with him...then do it.
Just do it the right way next time.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Well dear, I know your feeling about this other man, but still remember that Marriage is for better to worst from health to sickness till death do partness apart.. Beside that you are woman have a family and what do you do to your children when you make up your mind to leave this man and go for the other? Well I know what feeling of be in love it, but I can tell you that if you really want to forget about the other man, you should thinking about him again.... why not imform him that you love your family, your partner now may be not to man enough.. but children are there to rease you up again...
Think twice before you make a move.. hope this help
bust luck
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Hi,
My veiw is that you only get one life, and you should be happy while you are here.
You are in a real dilemma, and you must realise that it will no doubt hurt your husband if you left him. But if you are living a lie, what is the point of staying with him. It would be so hard for you to leave, and from the tone of your letter I get the feeling you are a nice person.
Is your husband completly disabled?, what I mean is, is he totally dependant on you. This would be a big factor in you leaving.
No one can tell you what is right to do, but if a man loved me for that long, and i felt the same, I would try to find a way to be with them.
To stay with a person out of pity is not healthy.
I wish you all the best XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): well love in my opinion i would leave your husband and go with the other man! u say u luv the other man you only live once
Good luck
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