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Husband missed daughters bdsy because he went drinking

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Question - (3 June 2022) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2022)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi there. Asking for advice on this situation.

It was my daughter's 6th birthday on Wednesday and we were meant to have a small party but my husband missed it.

The reason? He and my dad went on a bar crawl and ended up coming home so drunk he could barely stand up, never mind walk. My dad? He was so drunk he could hardly speak properly.

I was furious with him for missing our daughter's birthday party.

I'm glad the two of them get on well but this is ridiculous.

He doesn't normally do this sort of thing and this behavior had me a bit concerned.

Our daughter was sad dad couldn't be there.

Shouldnt he do something to make it up to her?

This was a one-off incident AFAIK but I'm still feeling angry about it.

I haven't talked to my husband about it yet because I'm not in any state to, I'd get angry too easily. But I'll be calm soon enough.

I don't know what to think or do or the right thing to do.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2022):

kenny agony auntYou say this was a one off incident, maybe it would be different if it was happening all the time.

Sounds like he needs a stern talking too, maybe wait till you have calmed down a bit and not so angry.

And yes he has got some making up to do.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 June 2022):

Honeypie agony auntWell, your dad and your husband better make it up to you and most particularly to your daughter ASAP!

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