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writes: just would like some peoples opinions on this one my husband left me a couple of months ago and has just told me this evening that he is in love with someone else but nothing happened before he left me would you say it is still an affair adultry even if they did not do anything until we split
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I know how you must feel but the bottom line is he left you and you have to move on. It sounds like he could of met her before and now he is announcing to you that he has met someone. Life is the pits when this happens. Don't go out with the intention of meeting someone to get back at him. Just sit back and enjoy your freedom and someone will come along for you when the time is right. Not now. It is too soon. Take care. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I am sorry this has happened to you, you ask if this is an affair of adultery if they did not do anything before you split....it sounds like possibly he and she were having an emotional affair, and now it is something more in his mind.
Which by the way is the same thing really, it is cheating. It is not too uncommon for marriages to end this way, someone looking to get out goes looking for someone else...He does not sound like he is very capable of sustaining a commitment, and relationships that are born of infedility have a very poor chance of surviving as a marriage of more than one year....because past behavior is a very strong predictor of future behavior, and their relationship will have trust issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I second that. I'm sure you want some mental closure of sorts, but it's quite pointless at this point anyhow. He's gone. End of that story.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I'd say it doesn't really matter. He's left you so whatever did or didn't happen it is now over.
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