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Husband isn't satisfying me in bed

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Question - (11 August 2021) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2021)
A female Burundi age 22-25, *uruthum T writes:

My husband isnot satisfying me in bed,what help and advice do you give.should i quit him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2021):

You are still very young. You need to talk to him. Sometimes there could be other factors in the way like job situation, paying bills, kids etc. If all is not well there then sex wouldnt be his priority. Young couple like yourself and married can face a few challenges. It woukdnt be easy to walk away if you are loves young dream. Did you rush in?

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A female reader, Quruthum T Burundi +, writes (13 August 2021):

Quruthum T is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Quruthum T agony auntThanks for your advice

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2021):

kenny agony auntLooking at your age bracket your marriage is still only in its infancy. This is very early on to be talking out problems in the bedroom.

I agree with FA, i think communication is the key here.

Also knowing each others likes and dislikes, each others turn ons, and turn offs. Not being selfish with regards to stimulating your partner, and plenty of foreplay before having sex.

It's something that can be worked on, so without knowing to much about your situation i would saying quitting him over this is not such a good idea.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (12 August 2021):

Fatherly Advice agony auntAt your age and considering your other question re. his porn use, I think there is a lot that could be done. It will start with open and honest communication. It will require experimentation. You will both have to be patient.

A sex therapist isn't out of line.

Sex is very important to a lasting marriage. It is worth the effort to get it right.

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A male reader, Osbert jonyAJO234 Nigeria +, writes (12 August 2021):

Osbert jonyAJO234 agony auntTry telling him,if doesnot work, quit him.

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