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writes:my husband is in the navy and i moved myself and our three kids back to texas. he just told me yesterday he wasnt in love with me anymore because i wasnt there but i am moving to be with him this week. i need to know how can i make our marrage to work? i really love him
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reader, Befuddled1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 It is hard having a relationship.It is hard having a relationship with someone in the armed forcesIt is hard having a relationship with 3 kids!!!You need to have a proper talk with your husband and tell him how much you love him, how much you want to make things work. Nobody said it would be easy, but it is so worth it to be in love!Good luck to you and your familyx
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reader, Straight Up1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 absence makes the heart grow stronger!! ever heard that ?? I think he is using your being apart as an excuse.Because you have a family...you owe it to yourself and the kids to move and make a real effort here. If things go back to happy times once you are together then I guess you are in good shape...but be very careful and pay attention to all of his behaviors.And don't be afraid if it isn't working out for you and the kids...to head back to Texas!!we all want to MAKE the marriage work...but truth is...in a good marriage...you shouldn't have to MAKE anything...it should be very natural and take a bit of work to have a great life!!
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