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writes: Husband is diabetic and very caring and loving but never wants sex with me but watches lots of porno videos
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Not sure of the relativity of his diabetic state to his not wanting to be intimate with you. Porn is not healthy for one individual in a marriage to enjoy. It just isn't. Sounds to me like he's lost intimate feelings for you. Ask him why? Make him talk...and if you get no where you should both go to counseling. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): i totally agree with cd
with his health problems hes most likely finding it hard to ''be a man' and with that it also creates stress which adds to the viscious circle.
he most likely needs your support,reasurance and comfort now more then ever. his pride is dented, he needs to be shown he can still do ''his thing'' . just talk it through with him and comfort him, reduce his stress. he defently wont feel like making the first move so maybe help him,gently coax him dont come across as frustrated or youll amplify the stress.
hope i helped x
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reader, cd206  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I'm by no means an expert on diabetes but I've heard it can cause erectile dysfunction in some men. Maybe he's avoiding sex with you because of that or maybe he feels that his body has let him down in developing diabetes and therefore he is ashamed of it and his self confidence has been dashed. Try talking to him about it. Tell him you love him regardless but you'd like to be there for him. Hope this helps.
CD
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