A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've found out that my husband has been looking at pornography online. However, it's not female porn, but pictures of Wes Scantlin (look him up on Google).I only knew about it having found a print-out with a picture of Wes and stained underpants whilst cleaning the house.I also found hundreds of magazines with pictures of Wes Scantlin in them - as well as newspaper cuttings too.In an attempt to try and break him from this addiction, I dressed in sexy underwear, but he ignored me and went straight to the computer, masturbating over pictures of Wes Scantlin.He's even started dressing up like him when we have sex - and I've told him I find it more embarrassing than sexy.He comes in from work, makes himself something to eat, and then sits masturbating over pictures of Wes. He doesn't show this level of interest over other men, indeed, it only seems to be Wes Scantlin he's interested in.We used to have great sex, but now he just won't stop looking at the pictures, and he refuses sex whenever I initiate it.I've tried talking to him about the issue, but he just refuses to discuss the issue, claiming I'm intruding on his personal life. He'll discuss any issue but our sex life and this one.I want to get our sex life back to the way it was.Away from this, he's a gentle, romantic, loving person who's helpful and kind - but with regards to our sex life, well, I just can't resolve that one.Tania
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reader, MT19 +, writes (4 January 2009):
What an unusual problem i can see why your so confused!!! I think that unfortunatly your husband is going to have to talk about this because sweetheart you need to know where you stand! Is he Gay? Bisexual? Or is it just a strange form of hero worship for Wes Scantlin? Is he attracted to the guy or does he want to be the guy? You are his wife and you have a right to these answers you say he is a gentle loving person usually well if he has any respect for you and your marriage he needs to compromise he needs to include your needs!!! Most couples have a shared personal life and he needs to remember this. Try not to be confrontational about it but do not settle for it either. Once you have all the information you cand decide what to do from there!! Good Luck !!!
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