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writes:Ok so i have this huge crush on this kid in my class. I fell in love with him the minute i saw him! I know he knows who i am and everything, but I now that he will never actually talk to me and im to shy to talk to him! so what do i do?!?!??!
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reader, Just Saying +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Start with a smile... a smile never hurts or damages anyone..
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 so ok your'e shy, so smile at him from a few feet away. if he's interested he will smile back. then he may even talk to you. then what are you going to do?. run away?.
just what are you afraid of. you need to be brave and if you like this guy as much as you say you do then go for it.
one of you has to make the first move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk the only thing is I amway to scared to even say hi!
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reader, KaileyLove  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Be cool. Confidence is key. Guys LOVE a girl that loves herself, never doubts her abilities, and never abuses her talents. The simple little things can make him crazy for you, but let's start slow.
Small hints are good, be friendly to everybody in the class, especially him. If he's drawing, listening to music, reading a book (etc.) in class just casually ask about it. "woah, you're good at art.", "What kind of music do you like?" "What'cha reading?"
Simply get him talking to you. Break the ice. Once you're on a pretty good friendship status, ask to hang out. DON'T say, "Let's hang out." or "Do you want to hang out?" Instead, confidently say, "We should hang out sometime." and give him a slight smile. If he agrees, ask, "How will I get ahold of you?". If he refuses, keep the friendship status and ask again when you're more confident that he'll say yes.
Good Luck! =]
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reader, King of Amateurs +, writes (21 October 2010):
Ok, first off don`t make the mistake of thinking your in love with this kid, becasue it`s just a crush, you can`t truly love someone until you know them. Honestly other then that I know what your going through, you should just talk to the kid, get to know him and be friends with him, if you need help ask one of your friends to introduce you to him as a friend, get to know him see if you guys share the some intrests, once you get to know him better, then see if your feeelings for him last or fade, if they fade continue to be friends, if they last then the rest of it is up to you.
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reader, slimfish +, writes (21 October 2010):
why do you think he wont ever talk to him?.
just be yourself and smile at him when you see him. say hello if you can and he will reply.
keep trying if he does'nt show interest the first time, he may be shy as well. good luck.
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reader, Just Saying +, writes (21 October 2010):
Key word is CRUSH..Love is a different story, if this kid is about your same age, then just take a deep breath, walk up to him and start a casual conversation, you know ask him what did he thought of the class or the teacher or the assignment. Start a conversation first and see if you can hold a small conversation with this kid. He might be interested in you too and is to shy to show it, I am not saying to be forward but a nice conversation is a good to break the ice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): Hey... I understand exactly what you're going through. The same thing happened to me last year. It didn't help me though, when I was trying to get over him, that the teacher changed our seats and, of course, he sat right behind me. Anyways, I think that you should be the one to say something to him. He knows you exist so that makes it even easier. Do you have anything in common that you could talk about?
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