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writes: I wanted to ask a question, my husband and I have been together for 15 years. I love him and he loves me but we've had some problems in our realtionship lately. Nothing that we can't work out together, but since the problems started, he seems to want sex all the time. I am not sure what to make of it. It seems he is always turned on. I love our sex life but I am not sure why he has all the sexual energy lately. Any thoughts?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (25 January 2010):
Men also seek out sex as a form of acceptance and approval. Perhaps your disagreement made him feel insecure and now he has woken up to your sexiness. My ex husband cheated on me and afterwards when we were trying to work things out he was like this. Just enjoy the renewed interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): I know when I fight with my fiancé I do the same thing. It's my way of knowing we are still ok after a fight. If we make love I know she still loves me.
We've gone through patches where we fight every other day and every time I want to make love. It's a mans way of knowing it's all ok. At least for me it is.
Sometimes she thinks it's all I want when I am so turned on that I want it every night but it's not. It's just that's my way of knowing she still loves me and doesn't hate me or isn't still mad.
Plus sex after a good fight is exhilirating.
I'm not saying it can't be anything else but if there are no other red flags that might be it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): could be that he is a little overwhelmed with problems and is seeking an emotional answer in having sex... feeling some closeness to you.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (25 January 2010):
Well if he is anything like my ex it might be because you guys are having problems. My ex and i still see each other and he still loves me but I just dont feel the same and my ex still tries and some times succeeds at having sex with me and when I ask if he is just horny he says no that he misses me and doesn't know any other way to feel close to me since when we are together things are fine but when he goes home the fights start again. Maybe because of your problems your husband just doesn't know how to be close with you other than physically and its his way of trying to fix hurt feelings. You could always try talking to him because he is the only one who knows why he is so hyper-sexual.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 Could be a number of things; 1.Midlife crisis (needs to know you still find him attractive) 2. Secretly experimenting with Viagra and too embarrassed to tell you 3. New female employee at his office that has turned his head and made him feel sexy 4. He's been surfing porn when you weren't around and needs a place to work off his lust.
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