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writes: I'm 29 and my husband is 28.Recently he's become obsessed with pictures of male underwear models, even blatantly looking at them on the PC.I asked him why he did this, but he said it's just a personal thing. He also insisted he wasn't gay.We've only been married a year.I'm feeling depressed due to this. We dont even have sex any more as he has become more obsessed with his work.yet away from work he's a gentle decent man who i can have proper conversations with. the sex side of our relationship is a problem. im confused should i stay or goAlexa
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): He refuses to discuss this issue with me. When i try to discuss it he changes the subject.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (24 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well i agree completely with Dr Pete he's spot on :o) marriage is a big commitment and something not to be taken lightly, you say you can talk to him, so why have you not tried this option... communication is the key element in any relationship never mind a troubled one you need to tell him how your feeling he can't read your mind talk this through don't just assume he knows how your feelin TALK TO HIM ! you'll be fine its probably just a small issue you too can talk through :o)
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truely i'm always here for you ok :o)
You Take Care Babe And Good Luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): Only 1 year in to your marriage and you are thinking of ending it? What were you thinking when you took your vows - that you would live happily ever after?You said he's a decent man who you can have proper conversations with - why not have a proper conversation about your feelings and concerns. It would be a shame for you both to end up another divorce statistic just because you've hit a rough patch and don't know how to communicate with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): Er, I think he's gay.
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