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writes:hello i need some advice,i like this girl and would like 2 ask her out the the movies but the only thing is i have not seen her in a long time and also i dont know how to ask her ???should i take some friends or just me and her as i dont relly no her friends the only way i now her is through my mate and he used 2 go out with her so now thay dont talk much please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Perhaps your best bet would be to get to know her a little better first - ask her for her email or her phone number, talk to her a while.
Dating at your age is quite daunting. A technique that always worked for me was the group date - you get some of your friends, she brings some of hers, and if all goes well, you just /happen/ to sit together, and then afterwards you suggest doing it again sometime with just the two of you. Or, if it doesn't go quite as well as you'd hoped, you leave her to sit with her friends, you sit with yours, and enjoy the movie regardless.
Either way, if you're going to ask her out, do it directly, and do it in person. Confidence is key - as tempting as it might be to do, no girl really likes hearing 'my friend wants to know if you'll go out with him' - that's the cop-out way to do it.
Good luck to you, whatever you decide. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): you could txt her saying 'wanna watch a film-just me and you-its been ages since we spoke-would be good to catch up'
or write her a tiny note-or email it.
take your friends-if she takes hers.
just ask her and see what she wants to do:)
love and godbless x
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