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writes:okay i found out my hubby looks at porn occasionally which i don't mind really as long as it isn't excessive we have great sex and i know he loves me i mean i get a little jealous sometimes but i haven't talked to him about it yet i definitely want to so he knows i know and wont feel bad or guilty hes only human. but in the mean time can i get some info on things you or your partners seem to really enjoy in bed? i want him to be spoiled and do everything i can to please him. i don't understand how i get jealous sometimes when i sometimes watch porn it has nothing to do with him im completely satisfied but it erks me sometimes but im dealing with it id rather spend or time having fun and making love instead of arguing over porn ya know?so let me know any tips you have to spice i up a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Elf I know your really young, and therefore I hope your only planning what you will do to keep you husband happy and satisfied and treating you right, not actually doing any of this.
But of course as they say out of the mouth of babes comes the words of wisdom. Being adventurous, teasing him and driving him wild is a great begining and should set you right to make you number one in his mind. Use your imagination, use some of Elf's fantasy and imagination, what would the perfect lover look like to you if you were a man. Use your imagination and go wild. (I'm glad Elf was here to translate, cause I couldn't understand some of what you said... LOL)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): clitical.com is a great website for couples or single women looking to spice up their sex life, its not trashy its classy and smart, and it has lots of ideas for couples to spice up their sex life. i can tell you now, your welcome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): the easiest way to not get jealous of the porn is to watch it with him, that way it is something you share......also, keep your eyes on the guys, not the girls! It is easy to become overwhelmed with the perfect little bodies of the girls and be fixated on them, but you will get more enjoyment out of watching if you concentrate on the men and their packages....and like the former poster here said, turn it off when you start getting heated, use it only to get you going. good luck, you'll need it
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Well, since you both enjoy porn, why not watch some together?
My guess is your jealousy is not rooted in him watching the porn, as much as, his paying attention to something other than you. You obviously feel very secure in your marriage not to make it an issue, so that is a very good sign.
In those times you watch porn together, the way I recommend to couples is to watch it and as the two of you start touching and move closer to being intimate, it is at that point to turn the porn off, and continue being sexual with each other. That will bring your attentions onto each other, and the stimulation of the porn gets brought into the relationship to spice things up.
-Frank B Kermit
www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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reader, Elf.  +, writes (16 June 2008):
ok i don quite know how to work this.. my first replie hasnt seem to we through so here goes agaian sorry ..
so . im only young , but id say be adventurous ,, tease him throughout theday so hes gaging fr it ,, when u want it , try going to different places, like theyard the kitchen,places you are more likely to get caught at it , jit makes things more exciting , mybe dress up for special occasions like anivarsaries, and birthdays, ad maybe this way hes less likely to forget thoes important dates also. try new positions, simpl google it and ull find hundreds of exciting shapes use can get urselves into . and if u do the teasing and give him areal life fantasy , if that makes sense, he wnt need the porn .
srryif i havnt been any help x
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