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writes: I've recently joined a website with my friend from school, it's a safe website for teens only and it's just a way to meet other people around the world without then getting any of your details. I suppose it can be classed as a dating website too. When you join you can add some of your information like height and eye colour etc, one of the questions is 'what is your ideal partner'. I answered it the best I could and got a message about a week later from a girl saying she fit my ideal partner and I quite like her and from what I can tell she likes me too. My question is this. Can a long distnace relationship between us work if it was to progess to that? She lives in Minnesota and I live in the UK. From what I've read on her profile she is the perfect girlfriend for me and she says I'm right for her, the only problem is distance. Is that something we could work around and over come or will it be an issue in the long run? Sorry it was a long question. Any advice is appreciated greatly. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, I'll be sure to keep my options open and not get too wrapped up in everything.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 it CAN work. BUT at your age and with the distance involved and the fact that you guys have never met I would not advise going full bore into a relationship that is exclusive with each other.
LDRs suck. LDRS where you have not met, are more than a couple of drive hours apart and do not have the time or money to see each other on a regular basis tend to be too difficult to make permanent.
I am in an LDR right now. BUT I am older, I am only 2 hours drive time from my partner, we see each other frequently and we have a plan to end the LDR next June when he moves to me...
LDR's require trust, honesty, patience, and communication. they also require that you have an end time for the LDR To become a CDR so you and your partner can be together.
I suggest you continue to be friends with this young lady but that you not cut yourself off from any local options that may arise later on down the road...
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reader, sighprash  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 of course it can work! all u need is love, and most importantly TRUST!!!!
it really isnt a big deal these days.. Skype, webcams.. etc etc
Good luck tho!! im sure itll work out perfectly if it was meant to be!!
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