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writes:Because of some horrible problems, that can't be worked out, I am leaving my husband. But how do I say it??We (he) are/is purchasing a home, but the agent has been pretty rude to me, so I want out of the deal and the marriage. Should I just go and not answer his calls? He will call my work and I can't have that happen. Or, how do I tell him I am leaving (moving out)? Need advice fast! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 October 2011):
 You must tell your husband you want out of the marriage and why.
As for the RE agent... why is their being rude to you a reason for being out of the marriage... or was it just the way you wrote it.
You should first tell your husband it's over and tell him why (as long as it has NOTHING to do with the house buying and/or the agent you are working with... because if that IS the case then there's something else going on that needs to be looked at)....
after you and your husband have discussed ending the marriage then you can tell the agent you are no longer party to the home purchase...
get your own place and move on...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2011): Why do u want to leave? U mention u both are purchasing a home together but the agent was rude to u. Why must he now be the one to pay the price for this? So basically I am asking what really transpired.Is this an emotional decision or is it a well thought out plan? What are the new house? Does the deal fall through or will he continue on his own?Whatever u do, don't be a coward: do the right thing: talk to him. No screaming . Just tell him what u are feeling and why.Not an easy thing to do. (BTW I've read your replies in other posts.I like it. So babes if u can dish it out, u can do the same in your own life. Don't let an estate agent dictate the final outcome of your marriage.Good luck)LoveGirl
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 October 2011):
 Tell him - the sooner the better. And do it before the house it bought and please, woman up, and do it face to face.You can not hide your head in the sand and expect him to "figure" it out.
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (14 October 2011):
 There is no easy way to do this. You should not run away though!!! You need to tell him that its over and that you want to move on with your life and maybe stop him from making this commitment to buying the house... Sit the guy down and tell him.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (14 October 2011):
 No, don't skip his calls. Tell him up front. And tell the agent. Make sure the agent knows that you are no longer a party to the home purchase, before anything is signed, so that you limit your financial liability.
Your husband must have some idea that this is coming. So tell him and get it over with.
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