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writes:Okay, so im 14 and I have a crush on my teacher. I want it to stop because I know I can never have him. Please give me tips on how to stop, and please don't say ignore him because it won't work. I just hate thinking that when he gets home he forgets about me. I'm never going to see him after I graduate. I always feel like he's leading me on, but I know he's just trying to be friendly with me. I hate sounding like every single teenager girl who has a crush on their teacher, but I don't plan on telling him that I like him. Please some useful advice would be nice. Oh, and he's in his late 30's.
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reader, juicylovex3  +, writes (24 May 2010):
i think that your just really young and falling for a lot of guys that you see. it is just a phase, you know?? i think it is obvious and you know that you will never be together with him. instead of ignoring him, when or if you ever get fantasies with the guy, before it goes too far, remind yourself that its just impossible. he is only trying to be friendly with you. who knows, he might just have a girlfriend.. if you find some other crush or hang out with your friends and stuff, im sure that can help you move on. i felt like that once when i was in high school.. but it wasnt a severe crush. i just thought he was so cute. but he was married. ha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): You don't sound like every single teenage girl because they are usually like this: "OMGG I hav a crush on my teacher, how can I get him to like mee"
Anyway, onto the situation. The problem with crushes is just that. You can't just flick a switch and go offline, as you've noticed by now. It's like opening a floodgate. You can close it but the water has already gotten inside.
I used to have a crush on my teacher when I was 15. What I did was trying to notice the less attractive things about him. Maybe he has a temper. Maybe you don't like the way he dresses. Etc. Imagine what he would look like 20 years from now. Just try to break down that picture you have in your head. It's hard, but it works.
Good luck!
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