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writes:i spent the last 2 days working hard and kissing so much ass at work to get monday and tuesday off so i can spend the days with my bf now he told me he asked to do extra shifts thoses days even though he knows i worked so hard to get them off. his next day off wont be until after christmas so i was going to make these two days our prechristmas i worked so hard and he dont seem to see how much this has hurt me and upset me. he thinks sorry will make it better then he will do the same again next time he gets a day off. how can i show him that it hurts me when i make plans and then he doesnt have the balls to say no when people ask him to work and not have a day off for weeks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): It is important that you talk to him and discuss your feelings with him. He needs to know how much this is upsetting you and hurting you.If the relationship is equally important to him, he will make time to be with you. I think it is important that you both discuss and try and arrange time to spend with each other.
Like Alan Lakein said:
"Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it".
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 December 2008):
It doesn't say your age or how serious this relationship, but if he's not prepared to stand up for you now, do you think he'll ever be prepared to do it?
You say he thinks sorry will be enough and that he has done this before. Well in that case Sorry has been enough as he's said it before and you took him back.
If you don't want him to treat you like this then tell him that you do not forgive him and you won't put up with this any more.
If you forgive him then he will never change. If you let him know you'll leave him then he might finally grow some balls.
Good Luck!! xx
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