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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:how can i get him back?After being attracted to each other we passed the contact details, then we met once for dinner, he show his real interest by openning up...i was sure he liked me...we had no physical contacts at all, then i told him about my ex husband days after, he was still fine to be friends until my settlement to be finished oficially...he told about me to his family too... after 2 months there was a cruise night...i went said hi to him..and could not catch him up there, because my ex was there too...i wasn't feeling comfortable...then the day after i sent him an email to move to next level...but he suddenly wrote me back "he is not interested and never was..." but he was at the beggining...i asked him he told me "he is not physically interested..." but we even had no physical contacts/touches... i was confused..i really like him ..what i need to do to make him interested again?..he said "delete my number, and email address.." he dosen't want to communicate too...what should i do?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Hi, I think he clearly doesnt want to pursue a relationship with you, sorry about that. If he's asked you to delete his contact information, that is as clear a "not interested" sign as there could be. If I were in your shoes, I would do as he requested, and then forget about him.
Stay busy with your usual activities, sign up for an interesting class or two, and don't spend another minute working out how to get him interested. It'll be a waste of your precious time and will keep you from meeting a better match for you.
All the best, and take care of your heart!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Sounds like a no-go-zone to me. Back away, you don't need to go chasing after him like a lovesick puppy, you're better than that. Respect his wishes by doing as he requested and respect yourself by finding someone who won't lead you on and then shut you down like that
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