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writes:I have a hard time making a move on a girl. I can go out on dates and have a wonderful time but when the date is getting over i don't know how to close the deal. I guess what I'm tryin to say is that i don't know if she is interested or not and if she is what do i do about it?
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reader, anoms  +, writes (22 April 2009):
 iv actually asked a few women i know this questian lately "how do i know when to make that move?" and most of them said that they wouldnt have met up with me or gone on a date in the first place if they werent sure about it, so in the longrun a kiss is quite a small step, but they can usually decide for themselves after that..as in future dates an what not, gudluk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): At the end of the date you see her safely to her front door. You tell her you had a wonderful time, that you really enjoyed her company and you'd like to go out together again sometime soon. Take her hand and kiss her on the back of it and thank her for a great evening. She'll either invite you in for a 'coffee' or a real coffee or tell you she'll get back to you later.
Wait no more than a week if the latter.
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reader, togtog +, writes (21 April 2009):
Is this any girl that you are talking about, or a particular girl?
How long have you known them for before the date? Are they people that you have spent time with and got to know?
If you are not sure if they like you or not, why not simply ask them if they would like to come on another date with you? If they like you, then they will say yes! and you will then have a bit more time to get to know them.
It sounds as though you simply want any old woman, and you aren't really thinking about how much you do or don't like them!
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