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writes:This question is mainly for men but the ladies can chime in as well.If you meet a woman for the first time and have only 5 minutes to talk what will you ask or say to her that would leave an impression on her? I am wondering what topics I can talk that women usually find interesting other than the regular boring ones like work, hobbies, etc..I am asking this because I go to Speed Dating events where I get only 5 minutes with each woman. I find myself typically asking the same set of questions like - where are you from? hobbies? what do you do? etc... I feel like that's what the other men are also asking. I want to talk some thing different and stand out from the crowd.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): The reason why a lot of men do this is because it's good to know the basics before you go ahead and date someone. If you're really interested just ask her if she wants a drink, or suggest exchanging numbers or email so you can keep in touch. Ask her if she has FB, AND ADD HER. she might have twitter too, or some other website. Make sure you're charming. Always have a smile, be polite, have a good sense of humour, just act like you're talking to a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): Everyone doesn't evoke interest that looks you in the eyes.
Desperate people take interest in anything that moves.
If you find someone that does:
If this really isn't your scene, and you'd really prefer to take a few moments to have a real conversation; I'd be happy to exchanges numbers with you later. That is, if you're interested? Maybe we could have a cup of coffee?
Make meaningless small take with people that don't interest you. People get by too much on pretense and phony personality enough as it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): How about going online to find unique questions to ask speed dating people? Like "if you had one wish what would you use it for?" and/or "if you won the lottery, what would you do first with the money?" It can show some signs about their personality depending on their answer and I doubt many of them will be asked those types of questions.
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