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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi I’m 18 male. I’m really close to my best friend who is a female. I really like her but I don’t know how to ask her because I don’t want to destroy you friendship. What can I do?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 November 2010):
I'm in a similar boat and have sought advice from some other female friends on the matter. They have told me that it is best for you to tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't fell the same, it is rare that the friendship will end. You may need some space in order to work out your feelings if you are indeed rejected, but she'll understand that. The closer of friends that you are, the more understanding she will likely be. She may have some idea about your feelings already.
You'll also likely never know if she feels the same if you don't ask her. Is the reward worth the risk?
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