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female
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36-40,
*old and beautiful
writes:Im a 26 yr old female thats invovled with 45 yr old man we have been together for 6yrs and have 2 children together. I want to keep the spark between us we just reconciled after 8 months so we are slowly easing back into it, and i want our relationship to rekindle the flame we once had for one another. how do get the spark back and keep it this time?
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reader, lost.dreamer  +, writes (26 June 2011):
This happens too many relationships, even when ages are similar. Things become routine, boring, and the spark gets lost. There are a lot of sites out there that give you this information, visit as many as you can, research it. Videos, speciality stores, magazines ect... If you go for a hike 3 times a week and always go to the same park and down the same trail, will you still enjoy that hike 3 times a week... so you may need to travel down another path or go to another park. So the same with your relationship, and no if you are conservative it doesn't have to be something freaky and past your comfort level. Here's a game I learned from a video: hide the honey - blindfold your partner dab honey in two locations on your body, doesn't even need to be sexual, like behind the knee makes it hard for your partner to find, its an activity of exploration, your partner mave even find a special sweet spot neither of you knew that you had; oh yeah partner cant use their hands.
Try things that are within your comfort zone, they always say variety is the spice of life.
Why do we spend more time doing research or putting effort into buying a house or a car then our relationships?
I beleive every hour you spend on your relationship, gives you an extra month of happiness.
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