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male
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UKLifeCoach
writes:How to get the girl!Lets assume you are good looking, you dress well, you have a good job, you have material things and assets and interests and you are an interesting person. You fall into the category of a good looking man but still cant get the girl..Step 1: Start afresh and find a new girl to be interested in. Step 2: Self reflection time. Do you smoke? Do you have addictions? Do you have limiting beliefs? Do you eat well? Do you look after yourself? Are you confident? If you were a girl would you want to be with you? Can you handle yourself? do you ever run out of things to say?Step 3: Spend time with a piece of paper and get to know who you are. what are your good points and your bad points. If something is good. Ramp it up. If something is bad... either change it/dump the personality trait or.....embrace it and find some way of thinking its beneficial or there for a reason.Step 4: Female Psychology vs Male psychology. Testosterone is a hormone in large quantities in males but still present in females in smaller quantities. Both species are just as promiscuous as each other in general. Women love sex just as much if not more than guys. The main thing to remember is that women think using an emotional part of the brain. so if you put a woman in a brain MRI scanner and showed her 100 facial expressions, she would do a better job at empathy and understanding what those facial expressions meant. although a man can still do this. A man has to switch into this emotional way of thinking for this task where as a woman doesnt. Thats the sciency bit overThe relevant bit.. Women enjoy feeling a spectrum of emotions and get turned on when guys can take them through these emotions both negative and positive. You read alot of sexist things online about Pick up artists and gamers and players 'negging' girls... its not something I condone for trying to obtain sex...because its powerful manipulation because your spiking her emotions a bit like a heart rate monitor. theres postive spikes and negative ones.you may notice how the majority of girls have that thier heart broken. its because they respond to jerks. And the reason for that is that Jerks spike girls emotions quite heavily but to the negative.. and although they end up getting hurt. the majority of guys cant hit them on that emotional level like the jerks so they end up perpetually going back to these guys..You can spike her emotions positively though. And alot of nice guys do this but end up just bieng friend zoned. This is because the girl likes the nice emotions you make her feel but theres not enough range in how your making her feel so she hasnt pegged you as a sexual interest. You have to hit both those levels.I cant tell you how to do that. I dont like manipulating and do not agree you should specifically learn how to spike emotions and plan it. But bear in mind that if your not making her respond emotionally to you. She wont feel attracted to you.Step 4. So you understand all of the above and you have addressed everything in your life thats negative and devalues yourself, you have quit smoking, you eat right (makes your natrual pheromones better and increases testosterone)You need to be creative. And the one way to practice this is to let go of the care you have about what the girl may think...remember how many girls they are on the planet.. be ok with screwing up just to learn social boundaries and patterns of how far you can go with things. calibrate yourself and push the boat out.. say things you wouldnt usually say and just go beyond and surpass yourself.Never run out of things to say.. Get in the present and be in the moment. Talk about the now... draw everything to the now. If you say something stupid... style it out by laughing at yourself and admiting it was silly. and say... sometimes i say silly things but im ok with that... she will be ok with everything you do aslong as you are. if your awkward she will be too..get it... Step 5: always be standing out. Most of the best girls have heard every chat up line, theyve had all questions your thinking off asked to them a million times, you will get extra points for not asking the usual questions about work and what she likes in men, why is she single. Step 6: Dont be focused on sex with the girl as the winning outcome, this comes across and its kinda on a womans radar ... does this guy just want to get to the sex part... if she thinks that your done!!! Instead... enjoy the build up.. tease and play... remember your a man and you can masturbate whenever where ever. you dont need her vagina for your pleasure... you have a hand, buy a blow up doll.. Enjoy the interaction.. Secondly. Dont put girls on a pedestal based solely on how good looking they are.. A hot blonde girl 10/10 is not a better or nicer person than a 4/10 and nither should you enjoy talking to the hotter one more than the 4/10 they are all people. Women will be attracted to you naturally when they see that you are enjoying the interaction and the journey. So think... I'm not trying to make this girl want to have sex with me... instead think. I want to talk to this girl more and would like to see if she is good company and fun to hang out with. Mother nature is very effective at her job so put trust in her. If something happens it happens. Chill out. theres no pressure or rush.. You still can masturbateGood luck
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