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*ichel
writes:im fed up with my parents mingling in my life.My mom, especially has that habit of controlling and mingling constantly,I just feel her like some Dictator hanging over my head.Ive discovered that she has taken all the photos of my album from my late-sister and found the album Empty! I got so annoyed, just was thinking to apologise her for our recent row when i discovered this. WHY ON THE EARTH SHE COULD HAVE DONE THAT!???I love her but this acctions cannot bear and got in quarell which she thinks is attack on her and my extreme hatred,whoch is apsolutely no true... NO HOW can i BAck the Photos from her without being hars!?
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reader, michel +, writes (8 November 2007):
michel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for answering me. I appreciate a lot. I agree should not be here, but waiting to finish my last exam and will get away as soon as its done. Simply there is no point in trying to make any communication with them.I just want not to go from home like an runnaway but with my hearth on place...so Dont know actualy how to manage that..Thank u again for all of you answering this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): I think you need to have a chat with your mum and find out just what is going on. You need to establish why she got rid of the photos. You said 'late' sister. When and how did she die? But that could be the clue to why your mum is acting this way. She could be going through some grieving process yet, i cannot say without more information. Just be brave and strong and have a chat with her. Personally, i wouldnt be still living at home at your age, but that is down to the situation and the individual. Keep in touch if you want.
take care
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reader, cristin343  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 It sounds like your mom is treating you like a child. unfortunately if you are still living in her house, this will continue.
the short Answer: ITS Time to Move Out!
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reader, samohir  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Well, ASK her Why She did that.. That could be a good starting point for ur mutual communication.
Tell her that You do Love her , but that Ur grown up and you dont like She mingling in ur life affairs.
Try to avoid a quarell, when Will almost come to you to Burst out just take some seconds thinking.
Try to communicate somehow, if you cannot verbally which is desirable, than write her a leeter and explain to her.
I dont know why she might have done such thing, really.
I dont know ur mom to answer that.
But be sure that Love produces or at least is melding even the cruelest hearths and Good Word opens a Iron Gates.
If she cannot help herself than You help her !
Good Luck
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