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writes:In dealing with a man there's an obvious way of responding - the one who gets uptight and irrational loses the dispute. And ultimately, there's the implication that if you don't treat them fairly you can get hit.Lately, together with my female friend, we've had dealings with sulky, presumptious and controlling women. If they don't respond to rational discussion, and physical aggression toward them is taboo, what's left? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): I agree with Angelic your post hit me as disturbing on first impression , You actually sound strange and very detached in an odd way.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (23 July 2011):
 I most certainly agree with chigirl. Ignoreing her will defointly make her tick and in the long run make her realize you really arent bothered about what she ses.
Also if she trys to challange you or goes looking for an arguement with you then treat it like a joke, or simply be sarcastic it will make her realize that your not gonna take her seriously if she doesnt treat you with respect.
Good luck youll need it ;) x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 July 2011):
 Ignoring them, and the go on to do the exact opposite of what they want you to. It will bother them to no end and make them go crazy.
But ignoring them pretty much does it. It really gets to them, because they want to feel important. So if you act like they're unimportant and not worth your time, it will put them in their place.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (23 July 2011):
 Women very often behave like that when they are a) not getting their own way or b) not getting enough attention. You will also find the more attractive the woman in the main they will be the most arrogant and controlling as they know they can easiy attact another male. When a woman starts behaving like this (and I am a prime offender) it is best to immediately decide to go home / drop them off whatever and put some space between you. Women don't like being ignored so if you don't text or respond to texts and make no contact for a while they will normally calm down and behave better. I am a dreadful sulker when I don't get my own way and will try to manipulate any situation round to getting what I want.The only way to deal with women like this is to either ignore what they are doing, put your foot down or just don't play. If you let them get away with too much the demands will just become worse so you must be very clear upfront and say 'No' firmly if you don't want to do something and do not veer from this. The woman will eventually become bored fighting this and will either stop or move onto the next thing that they think they can get away with or have power/ decision making ability over.
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