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writes: I wanna keep this simple but i need help picking family or friends. I don't really want to tell anyone y im askin this but can u please help, I really do love my family they are so great and i am amazingly close to them but my friends are the best and i know i'll never find any like them. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (22 March 2009):
Look, friends come and go, but you're stuck with your family. That's just all there is to it.
If your parents are abusive, then you need to tell another adult figure like a teacher or school nurse/ counselor, and they can report to the proper authorities.
I know it feels like your friends are the ONLY people who will ever understand you. I went through that too. But the day I turned 18, I instantly got along with my parents. They finally stopped trying to control me, and I was able to show them I could take care of myself.
I don't know anyone who absolutely has no problems with their family at your age. But don't be shortsighted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): sorry i dont think i am going to be much help but.. i love my family so much.. and i waould not be able to live without my friends.. as my best friend is my cousin! it really depends on the situation and which one u feel can help u more! and which ones u prefer to be around! x
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