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How to break it off and keep him as a friend?

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Question - (26 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need help. Recently things with my boyfriend have been ok, but now i think that he just isn't the guy for me, he's nice looking but i don't find him attractive in a romantic type of way and i sometimes feel like we'd be better as friends. but on the good side he is a nice guy, and im afraid that if i dump him we wont be as close, im unsure about how i feel about him but am i just making myself feel like this so i wont lose him? or should i dump him, but i am afraid to lose him since i'm not close with many people? any help?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

i was with my boyfriend for 2 years at first we thought we was perfect for eachother but the honeymoon period was over i just said its not like it used to be and my feelings aren't as strong anymore can we please remain friends because your a really nice guy and fun to hang around with and 1 year later were like bestfriends

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

dirtball agony auntDecide how you feel before you break it off. Once a couple breaks up, it is difficult to maintain a friendship. He'll move on and get a new GF. She won't like him talking to his ex. You'll get a new BF who won't like you talking to your ex. The other problem with maintaining a friendship is that it can be hard to sort out those feelings you still have for eachother.

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