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How to ask my boyfriend if he wants me to shave or trim

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Question - (3 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfirend keeps wanting to finger me but im shy because 1. i trim and 2. i dunno how to shave down there.... and 3 i dunno if he likes complety shave or trimed??

how do i ask him?

and how do you shave down there??

thank u

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

I suggest you ask him which he prefers : Trimmed or cleanly shaved? it's up to you how you're going to ask him. U can do it face to face the next time u guys are making out and are in the heat of passion or you can send him a casual text message....that's sure to knock him off his feet. As for shaving...i have taken the liberty to do a search for you and i think this is pretty helpful :

For health and safety sake you need to use a fresh razor for shaving. Blunt razor blades can cause serious injury. Snip long pubic hair short. Think of this task like as if mowing the lawn. Long grass has to be taken down with a scythe so the mower blades do not jam, snag and stiffen. Sharp scissors, clippers or an electric razor will do the heavy work.

Do not rush; speed can cause shaving nicks and cuts. Once the hair is shortened, soak the genital area in warm water or use a damp warm cloth to place over the area and leave for 15 minutes. This helps soften any thick masses. Now lather the pubic area with shaving foam or gel. This helps the razor glide more easily. At any time if you need more lubrication apply more cream or gel. It is to your advantage that the shaving cream/gel is clear or lathers little so you can see what you are doing. Do not attempt to dry-shave, it is not safe and can cause skin scouring.

To avoid ingrown hairs, shave in the same direction that the hair grows. Do not repeat shaving over the same spot you do not want to scrape the skin. Taut the skin, it will help reach those difficult areas. Once the pubic hair has been shaved and rinsed, gently exfoliate with a flannel lathered with mild gentle soap to cleanse the pores. Once again choose the right soap. Particular cleansers contain ingredients that cause irritation. Some fragranced soap is not suitable. Apply moisturizer containing Vitamin E. Try rubbing an ice cube over the skin you shaved to close up the pores and then pat the area dry with a clean towel. Follow this with an astringent formula that contains salicylic acid to prevent ingrown hairs.

some women also wax instead of shave...but i've heard that waxing is painful and shaving can be done at your disposal..

Hope I've been helpful to you!!! Good luck!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

if hes your bf you shouldn't be embarrassed to ask any questions. plus at your age boys dont care !!i have been shaving since i was 14. i just use reg razor and shaving cream. becareful 1st few times not to cut yourself, my tip is don't use a brand new razor ever ...it maybe to sharp

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