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writes:Hi! I have a big issue! There's this guy who I have been seeing, seeing as in just seeing on the bus for almost a year now. I first noticed him when I was on the bus, and it was a packed bus and I had turned around and caught him looking at me. From then on, I would occasionally see him on the bus, and have caught him staring at me a few times - which I think is really cute! Whenever I caught him looking at me he would quickly turn away, and then start looking again and then I'll catch him looking again! I am literally in ''love'' with the guy! now instead of the bus, I see him nearly everyday at my train platform, since I take the train now to uni. And every time we see each other we smile. Just the other day he walked into the cafe at the platform and sat opposite me, and we smiled again for like a minute! And the thing is when he got up to leave for his train he looked back, as he always does and subtly smiles! However, I have seen him before in the central shopping centre walking with a girl but I don't know if they're together! Literally, everyone in my life knows about him because I can't get over him! I really really really want to say hi before its too late, but can never get myself to! But then I think, why doesn't he say hi? Is he shy? Please tell me what to do, I always prepare myself mentally that I will say hi the next day but something stops me! I get too nervous, and also I don't know how to start a conversation with him! We've been smiling at each other for a year now, but I really want to talk to him! help me please!!!!!! :(
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reader, curiousM  +, writes (11 February 2012):
If he thinks you're cute enough to smile at you everyday for a year and still hasn't had the nerve to speak to you, he may be in a relationship. I would think that most guys who want to actively pursue a woman would at least say hello and not just look for an entire year. You should casually say something to him along the lines of "surely there's someone in your life that makes you smile like that all the time." Then you will have your answer. If he hesitates at all, he more than likely already has a woman. You don't want to be a homewrecker! Just my personal opinion. If it's really been a year that y'all have been exchanging looks and smiles and he STILL hasn't approached you, either he's a freak or he is already taken and therefore loyal. Hope this helps. :)
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reader, poil  +, writes (11 February 2012):
To start I am shy, I for some reason had the biggest fear of guys knowing I liked them. I am still shy to make the first move but sometimes you have to let them know your interested and not just a nice girl. Is there somthing you could "forget" and have to ask him? Maybe need change? or charge ur cell phone be creative!! Or next time he is within a good range make a comment about anything...beautiful day...did u hear about intersting news fact...the train is so much nice then the bus..anything...make a comment anything then let him take it from there...see what happans!!
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