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I'm a virgin, girl I've got my eye on definitely is NOT. What should I do?

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Question - (28 January 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

HI

I'm attracted to a girl at my place of work, we've flirted a lot a think she likes me. However, i'm 17 and she's 20. i'm a virgin and she's definately not. What can i do to impress this girl? and how do i get over my sexual inexperience? i don't want to end up going all the way with her and then do something wrong to annoy her or make her unimpressed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

Buy the movie, "The Tao of Steve." Groom yourself the best you can, get your hair cut by a gay hairstylist, wear cool, trendy clothes and act confident and standoffish. Do not seem desperate. If you do, you will blow it. Act desireless. Act like a woman can't get into your club and she will do anything to get in. Guys do the opposite. If you are even thinking of getting laid while talking to this girl you won't. Do something excellent in her presence and don't make a big deal out of it. Retreat.

She will chase after you. Cast the reel by doing somthing you are truly good at in ront of her. Demonstrate your value without it seeming like you are trying to impress her

and then I guarantee she will chase after you. Imagine you are "James Dean". Believe you are, act like it and everyone will also believe it. If someone had told me this information when I was your age it never would have taken me so long to get girls. Now it's almost too easy. It takes some time but once you have mastered it you can get any girl. Do not treat or put her on a pedestal. Go break some hearts.

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A reader, missy, writes (28 January 2005):

If you've already got this girls attention, then i doubt u'll need to do anything else to impress her other than be yourself, it seems to be working for you so far. As for the inexperiance, When it comes to the special moment, your more than likely to find that everything will come naturally, so just go with the flow and see what hapens, besides if shes experienced she probably knows what she likes so just ask her and let her help you out if you need it.

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