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How should I bring the chat back to this relationship?

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Question - (10 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hey

Been spending time with my ex and its made me realise how much i miss the fun and the laughter and the constant chatting that i dont get with my bf anymore. i know that things change in a relationship as time goes on but i want it back and i want it with my bf not with my ex. any suggestions on how to bring it back?

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006):

What do you know about him? What are his intrests? What does he like? Is he willing to be open? Does he feel "safe" to be open?

What was his favorite place when he was a child? Would he go back? If he could be anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Is he more introverted then extroverted? Introverts are attracted to extroverts.

There is a good book about how to love and support your introvert. That can be a start as well as researching into his likes/hobbies and learning about them.

Hope this helps you as I know you love him as you are willing to work on the relationship with your BF.

Just remember the reason why you wanted your new BF and why you left the old BF.

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A female reader, dr.lenise +, writes (10 July 2006):

try talking about something he likes then if you get a little coversation next time talk about something you and him both like if nothing works then honey you need to ask him whats wrong is every thing okay with him because the relationship is not same anymore and you would like to start back chatting with him and see how it goes or he just might be chatting with someone elses just maybe or maybe not

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