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writes: Dear cupid I need some help with choosening to ask this lad out that I really like what should I do I need help really bad his mates tell me that he wants to go out but I always think he is joking should I make the first move I am scared of what he might say nearlly all of his mates have said to me that he wants to go out with me I know he does'nt go for looks he goes for personlity. who do you think should make the first move please help me I need it really badly love chav123 Reply to this Question
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reader, haylee14  +, writes (14 April 2009):
okay, well basically no, you shouldn't lads should always just make the first move in my book. All you have to do is keep flirting with him, and get your mates to drop hints. If none of the flirting works try and make it bigger each time like, as for cuddles and piggy backs and things like that. If that doesn't work then start asking him questions like, whats his top 5 and shiz, if worst comes to worst then just simply say, that you like him more than just a friend and think it could work out. See what he says, but this stage shouldn't happen until about 2 weeks. :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): i fink you should make first move if his mates tell u he likes you then go for out and if he says no well theres plenty more fish in the sea and at least youve tried
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): you should make the first move but do it in a quite place with no-one around make sure you dont bother him if he says no he might change his mind that what happened to me.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (15 July 2006):
 Hey,
well. Love wouldn't be love (or teen years) without you getting hurt. If you want to find someone then be prepared for a bumpy road! If it turns out he is a joke and he says no, it's his loss. He'll probably soon see what he's missing.
Go For It!
Next time his mates come up to you why don't you just tell them that if he fancies you he'll ask you out yourself. That way you can find out if it is a joke or maybe give him the bit of confidence he needs to come over to you and ask you out himself!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Hi, because I don't really know the proper situation ie how he acts around you, it would be hard to tell. Is he flirty, friendly? My guess would be that if his friends are telling you this, it's probably true. I'm in the same situation as this more or less, and I know it's true because I can tell.
About making the first move.. if possible, could you not try and spend some time alone just you and him? Try and get into a deep conversation because the deeper you go, the easier it will be for him to "profess" his feelings, if any.
Personally, whenever I'm in doubt I ask them straight out, and if you are confident enough to do that, then go for it.
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