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writes:there is this man that works in a shop i go in. whenever i go in he says hello and smiles at me and comes over to me. my friend says it is obvious he likes me. i dont really know him and we havent talked much. but one time we did, he talked a lot about himself and stuff, is that a good sign? im 18 and he is older, probably about early or mid twenties. i would like to get to know him more and see him outside of the shop, but i dont know what to do. what should i say to him and how? i dont know for sure if he likes me but he always looks at me, i have caught him looking at me a lot of times. he always comes over to me when i go into the shop, sometimes right as i enter.how should i approach him? i find the task daunting and think he will think im strange as we dont really know each other and say no. do you think he likes me? and what should i say to him? i would really like to know him outside the shop, but i dont know what to say to him. will he think its weird as we dont really know each other? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): From what you have written I say that he is very intrigued by you, he takes the time to say hello to you and be friendly, he likes you.As for talking to him, I take it you have made comments when he talks to you? So you’ve made it over that boundary (no need to build up the courage to talk to him ‘cos you can already do that). Start off simple, find some interesting activity that is in town, a local band playing, carnival, county fair, or some event he mentioned when talking to you ect. Something un-date like. Ask him what he’s doing on the day that the said event is taking place, if he says he doesn’t have plans, mention the event, and ask if he is interested in going. Since you are worried about going on a date with him, do something social like the above mentioned things, they don’t have the pressures of a sit down dinner, but you still get to hang out outside the shop. Then later on if that works out you can move on to more date like things.Hope this helps and everything works out, good luck! =)
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reader, Angelripper  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Whenever you have a night off and happen to bump into him, ask him when he finishes his shift and if he has any plans. Don't make yourself out to seem too needy or anything like that. If he declines because he does actually have plans, but he's genuinely interested, wait for him to approach you. If he isn't interested, then just forget him -- but prepare yourself for the possibility of rejection!!
-The Resident Metalhead
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (26 July 2010):
 It's his job to be friendly to customers. He walks to you in case you need help with a product. I don't think asking guys out is strange. He can think whatever he wants. He is still going to look at customers and approach them every day. Ask if he has a girlfriend, then ask if he can go to coffee with you.
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reader, karen1989 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 He won't think its wierd. Somebody has to make the first move after all. Go for it! Be confident,you know he likes you therefore you have nothing to be afraid of.
Good luck :)
Karen.
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