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How much time should I give her?

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Question - (6 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship

and we have been going out for 9 mouths now. i'm 17 and she is 15. i go and see her every school holiday. for the last three mouths i have spent with her and we got on great. when i come home we were ok but a week later she wanted to split up with me :(

it got to a point were i asked my mate to talk to her.

when they had finshed talking he told me that she said that it is not over between us and that she wants to sort things out. i have tried phoning her but there is no anwser and i am waiting to see if she will phone me

i have been told to give her time and space

but what should i do if i didnt hear anything from her in the next few days???

bairing this in mind im not giving up on her and i love with all my heart

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

She don't want you and is trying to find a nice way out. Let her go.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2007):

kenny agony auntIf you have been told to give her some time and space then give her this. Don't keep calling all the time, because when someone is calling and texting all the time can be very off putting. Give her the space she needs, like maybe a week or 2 to let her sort things out. She will respect you alot more for giving the space she needs to clear her head and decide what she really wants.

In a week or 2 give her a call and maybe ask her if she fancies meeting up, then take it from there.

Good luck

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