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How much is "too much" in looking up an ex on facebook?

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Question - (7 April 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I know exes are exes for a reason ... And some people think that once an ex they should be gone and forgotten.

But how often should one think about their ex if they have been split up for over three years and in a relationship with someone else?

And how many times a year would you consider "too much" looking up their profile on facebook? (If they are not even friends) like daily, weekly, fortnightly, monthly?

The person in question does it every two to three weeks out of 'nosiness' apparently!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014):

I don't think it is nosiness. They are still interested in their ex. Why do it then? If they wanted to forget the ex they wouldn't be checking up on them at all on Facebook unless they are hoping to get back together again. On Facebook you can private message them too. If the ex was someone they really loved, regardless if the break up was bad, they would still probably want to know about them and maybe in the back of the mind they are hoping to reconcile with the ex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014):

Unless your relationship doesn't feel right, I'd ignore the facebook thing.

Really, it means nothing.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2014):

oldbag agony auntIf this person has moved on and is in a relationship then I would say don't look at all?

Why bother with an Ex after 3yrs anyway, especially by snooping on Facebook. Unless you are still interested

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