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writes: How much does he actually like me???I met a guy 3 months ago, we worked at the same place but he was just at my work for few weeks until we got another head chef. He is 23 and i am 26, i really liked him from the beginning and turned out he liked me as well. I knew he would leave after 3 weeks so i was trying to get to know him and spent time with him before he was gone. We slept together as well although i am kind of against starting anything from the bed i was just tempted cos i didnt know if i would see him again anytime soon. Then he left, i texted him he was texting back, sometimes he didn't and i was upset. After 2 weeks he came to work at my job again for 4 days and i asked if we could stay together at the hotel cos that's where they put him when he is here. He said sure so we had an awesome night, then i stayed for another. I havent seen him for next 2 weeks and when he came just for the day i was really happy to see him and asked how he was. He was nice but he didnt really pay attention to me and a week after when he was staying at the hotel again i asked if i could hang out with him and he said he was busy and maybe he will spend time with me the night after. I got upset and decided to back off cos i figured out that if i give him attention and im all over him it is not doing anything good for me. So i stopped textin him, stopped saying hi first and starting conversations when i saw him again. After another couple of weeks i didnt see him and then he started writing to me on skype or facebook when he saw me online, 3 weeks ago he came just for one nite and he asked me what time i finished so we could spend time together. It never happened before. When i was at his hotel he said he missed me and i said, i missed you as well, he answered :how come you never text me, and i said that he never replied so i couldnt be bothered and he said he was busy and i should text him or call him. I know he is busy but damn it , it takes 30 sec to text someone back, right? After that night he said he would be here again in 1,5 week for 3 days. So he came again few days ago and i finished earlier but have a live in job so i was upstairs and heard him being in the kitchen preparing new menu for the restaurant. I never came downstairs to say hi cos promised myself not to show any interest in doing the first move ever again. Abt half an hour after he left the kitchen he texted me that he is staying at the same room like last time and asked where i was, when i said i was upstairs he said that i should have come to say hi and i texted back that maybe if he wanted me to say hi he should have come to my room cos he knew where i lived. Then he texted maybe we can do something on tuesday nite and tomorrow and i said sure. So i was hanging out with him again cos he invited me and he asked what i was doing on New years eve cos maybe he could come to the place where i live and be here so we could spent time together and i said if i had a day off i would def spend it somewhere else that work so why he wants to be where he works he said that if i had a day off then i would spend new years eve with him. Then he said that he came for 2 days and he should be done and ready to go on tuesday but stays till wed cos he wants to spend time with me and later said that he came to my work to do the cook off before christmas just for me to see me and spend time with me cos he could choose any of the 9 places that he works for but he wanted to be here with me. Now i am just confused cos it sounds weird that suddenly he says that he comes here for me to be with me, he wants to spend new years eve with me and he never said anything like this before. Does he actually like me ? he calls me sweet names, he took me for dinner... what do you think? i always see him only in the evening cos i finish work abt 11:00 pm and he finishes when the kitchen closes around 10:00 p.m, the area is pretty rural so we can't do anything fun, just the dinner at the hotel he stays or drinks, watching tv...i am sure that if we had a day off together then we would do sth cos it happened once and we had a lot of funyeah we have sex every time we see each other but that's because of the chemistry between us, it is just really strong. While at work he always keeps looking at me, teasing me in a funny way or keeps poking me...so he flirts with me a lotbut he is horrible if it comes to texting, i texted him 2 days ago and still no response. he will probably text me tomorrow or in 2 days, why is he like this with texting? all guys are like that?and one more thing: one of the girls talked to him and said for a joke that he is my lover cos i got a boyfriend. I told him some time ago i broke up with him but sometimes he asks if i amstill with him and i always say NO, so i dont know what he actually thinks but anyway she said that i had a boyfriend and he is my lover and he said : "You don't know how it is"what did he mean?i know this from the girl that said it
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reader, boo22  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Hi hun. I think he likes you, but not as much as you like him right now.
Just relax and see what happens.
Chefs are usually like this, lol.
If you have a good time when you're together then that's great.
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