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writes: How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends? I know I never think about other guys when I'm having sex with my boyfriend, but I'm curious about how it is for guys. I once asked my boyfriend, but he said he only thinks of me. This sounds a bit unrealistic, and while I appreciate that he was trying to not hurt me, I don't think that's the truth. It's not like I'm gonna get childish and make a scene to him or take it too seriously, I just want to know. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Women do that just as much as men might do it. Don't think it's just a guy thing.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 I can't speak for any other man but if I'm really attracted to who I'm with, no other woman enters my mind. Not much enters my mind other than thoughts about what she looks like, how it feels etc. Otherwise my mind is pretty much blank and I'm just focusing on the feelings. As long as your bond is strong and he seems to be enjoying your body, you have nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): I never have. Focusing on the image in front of me and the feelings I am feeling is much more exciting. I don't think most men think of other women when having sex...? Unless they aren't into their partner. I don't know, I can't speak for all men. But if he says he's thinking of you believe him- it's hard to focus on so many things at once- how could he possibly think of your pleasure, your body, his pleasure, etc, etc AND be silently thinking of some other woman- too much brain power! We don't have that much brain power when we're having sex, the blood leaves the brain... ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): This is stupid but I was watching a Friends rerun and Chandler and Ross were talking about how they thought about other women... and I've always read it's normal that guys do it, they fanstasize about other women they find attractive, etc... that brought my curiosity up, and I wanted to know.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 You said you only think about him when you have sex - so why is it 'unrealistic' that he should do the same?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 While I can not speak for all guys, I have rarely if ever thought about others while making love to the woman involved at the moment.
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