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writes:me and my girlfriend have had sex quite a few times and im afraid that she is getting really loose. what should i do. how loose is too loose? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): No one can tell you over the internet "how loose is too loose"..it's totally subjective judgement. Why isn't she as tight as you like? The answer to that question actually depends a lot on the size of your penis.
I'm not trying to insinuate that you're "too small". Actually, it would be incredibly judgemental for me to say something like that, don't you think?
I also happen to believe that a woman can't be too wet either. The wetness is there for a reason, it ensures that it's not a painful experience for her and it guarantees that you don't chafe.
Kegel exercise/pressure DURING sex also help.
If this is truly an issue for you and you don't enjoy sex with her because of it, then you should let her know and find women with tighter vaginas...alternately, you could just use your hand.
Good luck.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (23 April 2011):
 She was probably TOO wet.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 April 2011):
 The tightness of a woman's vagina really only changes after she's had a baby. You could ask her to do some kegel exercises to try to tighten up. Sex doesn't "loosen" a vagina. It will stay the same no matter how many times she has sex. It's more likely that your perception has changed. For instance if when you masturbate you use a really firm grip, that can make a vagina seem extremely loose in comparison.
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