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anonymous
writes:I met a girl about 2 weeks ago and im starting to like her. ive only seen her twice but ive texted her all of last week. One of the thing is i want to get to know her more and i want to hang out with her but it seems like she is kind of holding back because she doesnt know me well. Ive had one date with her and it went very well.I asked her out for this weekend yesterday and she said she would hang out with me if she had time and she might even hang out with me yesterday but when i actually sent her a message to pick her up she never responded and i sent her another one this moring and she didnt respond again. I dont want to be pushy and send her a bunch of messages but i dont know what to do. All of last week she would respond to all my messages even if it was hours later. i would rather her say no than say yes and never actually go out. I think that she did like me because she was laughing the whole time on the date and neither of us wanted it to end but we both had stuff to do.My question is should i wait a couple of more hours and call her or send her a message or should i wait a few days? or just wait for her to call me? We both dont know eachother very well and im the one that is persuing her but i dont know how to go about it. Thanks in advanced
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reader, Rainy78 +, writes (7 March 2011):
I think that you should wait and let her call you. As you said, you don’t want her to think you are bugging her, or calling too much. It’s time for her to make the next move.
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